Mastics-Moriches-Shirley Community Library Reader Advisory Blog: RIP Larry Hagram

Larry Hagman, the actor best know for his portrayal of J.R. Ewing on the TV show Dallas passed away yesterday at the age of 81. In his autobiography, Hello Darlin' is a funny, easy going recounting of his life. Born to a teenage mother in the 1930s, Hagman tells of his struggles growing up in Texas, getting married, and becoming an actor. He is also candid about his struggles with drugs and alcohol which led to a liver transplant in 1994. Filled with delightful memories and tales of Hollywood and friendship, Hello Darlin' is a great read for anyone interested in learning about the life of Larry Hagman.

Being Mortal by Atul Gawande

Genre: Adult Non-Fiction
Rating: 5 out of 5

"Being Mortal is about the limitations of what modern medicine can provide for people as their lives draw to a close. Gawande argues that the objective of medicine should not merely be treatment and survival; medical care should also ensure dignity in death and having control over one's final moments. He argues that instead of aggressively fighting the inescapable realities of aging, we should ask the hard questions of ourselves and our loved ones -- What makes life worth living? When should we try to extend our lives, and when should we choose a better quality of our remaining days over extending their quantity?

This book is difficult to read. Not because of the way Gawande writes -- his style is highly engaging, and he never lapses into excessively scientific jargon or overly simplistic explanations -- but because of the tough subject matter. Gawande draws on his own experiences as a doctor and peppers his book with honest and humane stories of his patients, friends, and family; the stories he tells make the book more accessible, and also more heartbreaking. (And that's not a bad thing.)

No one likes to think about their loved ones', or their own, impending mortality. But it's important to have these hard conversations, because as Gawande says, "endings matter." - Amanda

RIP Larry Hagram

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